John 3:16 says for God so loved the world that he gave his only son and that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. That's great. God loves the world blah blah blah
But wait a second. You need to take this personally! God loves the world yes, but you also need to realize that He loves YOU. I'm going to try to explain something to you. Pay attention.
The relationship you have with Jesus is something that He can't have with anyone else. Don't misinterpret what I'm saying. Anyone can enter into an intimate relationship with Jesus. This is what He died for. Jesus came to give people eternal life. Jesus came so people could have an intimate relationship with God (John 17:3). But your relationship with Him is unique, because you are unique. All throughout the entire history of the world, there has never been, and never will be, another you. You are a unique one of a kind spirit.
Everyone is different. Everyone has unique talents, abilities, interests, character attributes and things that they are going to do in their life. God created you with these things in mind. "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb." Psalm 139:13
Revalation 4:11 says "for you have created all things, and for your pleasure they are and were created." You were created for God, and if He did not want YOU specifically, then YOU would not exist. When He made you, He had in mind a special, unique, intimate relationship that He could have with you.
You have a destiny. God has a plan for you; a good one to prosper you (see Jeremiah 29:11). God wants you to accomplish something great. He wants to be there working alongside of you, because He loves you and wants to be with you. He made you for a purpose only you can accomplish. He wants you to do something great that only you and Him can do together.
Some people think; "If God has some kind of desire for love and relationship, then He doesn't need to get it from me specifically. He can get if from one of His other million children." NO!!! Not true! God cannot get relationship with you from anyone else! That would make no sense!
Out of the 7 billion people that inhabit the world, there is only one you. You could search the entire world, and never find an exact replica. No two people are exactly alike. Therefore, you have something to give God that no one else can give Him. Yourself! Ephesians 2:8 says that you are saved by grace through faith, and it is not your own doing, but a gift from God. You don't make God love you by being super good. You are saved by grace - that's the gift of no condemnation He gives you because He loves you, through faith - that's you believing in it and saying yes to His proposal. He makes you great. Don't ever take it for granted that you are His precious treasure and He wants you, and He loves you personally. If He didn't want you, then He wouldn't have made you. You are one of His precious gems and He wants to be involved in every area of your life. He took great care in making you who you are.